>he's nice :)
>meanwhile the guy>>32016554
You are being manipulated, wake the fuck up
I swear, some of you really lack a father figure in your life>>32016556
She never thought of you as a potential partner.>>32016443
how have you gotten better at, as you say, getting over yourself? asking since this just happened last sunday. I'm really not his enemy, but I haven't been able to respond as much as I'd like because sometimes I struggle too, and I wonder if he or you recognize my humanity as well sometimes.

do you think he could be secretly wanting me to reach out anyway? i've never blocked himself, he did give me his email/home address, so could be snail mail... I was thinking of giving him a plushie and a supportive note/little letter and an origami ring I might make for him. I feel like an idiot of not reaching out since the one app he didn't block me on was available for a little over two days and I was scared to reach out out of fear, but I think he was giving me a way back in possible and I screwed up. that's why I was wondering if email/snail mail would be appropriate at some time. but I also wonder if he should just let go and move on or see if he reaches back out again. but I can't do that forever. very painful...
>>32016446
he beat me to it
>>32016453
I was the only child who actually kept up in contact with her, my other siblings kind of sucked towards her/me. the last week though we hadn't talked because she was upset at me for how I was taking my sibling not talking to her, my mom was upset thinking one of my siblings hated her. my mom had a really rough life so I hope she is at peace now. before she died I had a clairvoyant knowing of when she was going to die, so I'm really in tune to some level of psychic phenomena.I miss when I could just ask a girl to be my gf in HS without having gone on any dates.>>32016552
Okay I get it I'm sorry it just didn't feel so black and white in the moment I just thought he liked me so much he couldn't hold back
>>32016553
He's something but he's not a narcissist I think>>32016554
The only way the situation could be worse is if he told you he has a huge rape fetish.

...He hasn't told you that, has he?>>32016556
She was saving both you and herself from the cringe of the other classmate acting like a middle schooler. If you like her, forgot that happened and ramp up your flirting a bit. If she's receptive, ask her out>>32016510
hiii is this fellow viet anon fren? :)>>32016562
>he beat me to it
YOU have to take an action, YOU have to change. Letting him take all the actions is how you keep lying to yourself. You wait for him to block you, you wait for him to unblock you, you wait for him to block you, you wait for him to unblock you-- NO MORE. No more waiting. No more letting him be the only person who is capable of acting. Block him now and DO IT YOURSELF.>>32016564
I know anon, being a grown up is hard>>32016571
Negative, I am not vietnamese but I enjoy your foodI know this girl that started dating a covert narcissist
Her friend told her to open her eyes because he’s being manipulative - she didn’t care because he gave her oxytocin
She doesn’t care, she thinks the world of him
At the same time she refused to date great men
She deserves her pain
Same as this femanon that can’t pick up on red flags, or is just a troll>>32016557
I won't go out with him anymore but we've been friends for a while
>>32016559
I guess I thought I was okay because it wasn't really working?
>>32016567
He hasn't, that would scare me>>32016575
I get nervous on dates and I act nervous, women literally ask if I am okay.>>32016565
That was an example with the marcissist
And even that is not excluded>>32016578
desu red flag men are just hot af>>32016582
Am I supposed to be toxic or not, make up your mind women.>>32016579
So you say "I'm not ready for sex yet" and he responds with "Okay, but what about sex now, can we have sex now, why don't we have sex now, let's have sex now!!", is that right?

Would you treat any of your friends like that? A friend does not act that way with their friend. He is not your friend.where are the anons with the cute girl requests.. need to know if ur still here … so im not making art for nothin’ ..>>32016562
Anon I'll be straight up - I originally replied to you twice because I had something more to say at one point, and then I kept it going because I was embarrassed... But I'm just gonna reply as one anon if that's okay.

>how have you gotten better at, as you say, getting over yourself?
Part of it was just building the habit of breaking out of it, part of it was getting over my narcissism. It's a process. I just try not to go nuclear anymore.
>do you think he could be secretly wanting me to reach out anyway?
Maybe.
>I was thinking of giving him a plushie and a supportive note/little letter and an origami ring I might make for him.
Do not do that.
I really don't think a situation where you have to jump through hoops to keep him stable and friendly is helpful from your standpoint anyways.
>I was the only child who actually kept up in contact with her, my other siblings kind of sucked towards her/me
Fffffffuuuuuuck that's just like me with mine. It sounded like you were on pretty good terms. That's really good.

Also please listen to >>32016573, he's a smart anon.>>32016590
I was one of those anons but I'm back to hating women again.>>32016590
I need a cute girl being beaten to death by her boyfriend while she says
>But apart from this, he's such a good friend and a nice guy.>>32016587
Depends on wether you want to get the hot or the boring women to be into you.Holy fuck, Tex-Mex is the best cuisine and I"ll fight anyone who says otherwise. This shit is so good.>>32016590
I'm here!! I don't go to bed until like 4 am
I'm the talking-about-robots anon (and incidentally the swirly lollipop anon too)>>32016582
>hot
I can imagine how hot it is to suffer for years after and not trust anyone around you
Yeah, it’s very hot to be manipulated and have your respected stepped on because uhhhh because no daddy in my life…?
It’s very hot to be with a guy you can’t count on, inconsistend, inflated ego, enaging in feminine bahaviour to obtain what he wants, that acts like a spoiled kid just so other people do what he wants
Very very hot>>32016594
Fuck domestic laws.>>32016594
This but the guy has a GIANT red flag strapped to him>>32016593
what makes u hate women anon
>>32016594
LOOL okay let me finish my laundry
>>32016596
MEXICO MENTIONED RAAHHHH
>>32016597
omg the good-ideas anon.. hi…>>32016581
I don't understand
>>32016589
Not exactly we would just kiss and he would up the ante. It's probably my fault for not being clear>>32016598
Yes, now you are starting to understand.>>32016602
>what makes u hate women anon
See >>32015646 >>32016603
I gave an example, I didn’t call him a narcissist, but him being a narcissist is not excluded>>32016606
u just gotta find a nicer cooler woman anon>>32016606
That just means you have shit taste because all of these things are based.>>32016605
Irony is not transmitted through text
I really hope you’re not serious
These are not men, they’re less than>>32016603
>It's probably my fault
When are you going to stop being stupid? He knows what you want and HE DOESN'T CARE. Not nice, not a friend.>>32016579
>He hasn't, that would scare me
Lol would it? Or would we be seeing "guys it's just an innocent little kink">>32016613
>These are not men, they’re less than
100% agreed, nice guys need to be mercy killed>>32016589
NTA but pushing for sex, as long as it's not done in a completely disrespectful way, is normal and honestly mostly a good thing. The only real red flag I've gathered from OP's posts is the "I love you" and the crying in the first date>>32016582
It apparently becomes clear that I'm sweet and innocent when people get to know me personally, but people tend to assume that I'm a womanizing jerk.
What does this mean?>>32016607
Ah
>>32016614
He apologized is that a good sign?
>>32016616
I'm not thaat stupid>>32016610
I've met a lot of women though. I only know one who isn't like this and she's my aunt.>>32016620
It means you are baby.>>32016622
An apology without a permanent change in behavior is a lie.>>32016622
>I'm not thaat stupid
NTA but your replies and question have proven otherwise.>>32016602
What's wrong with mentioning Mexico? Tex-Mex is fucking great.>>32016628
I think she's happy>>32016628
I think she's gay.>>32016618
Why is the crying so bad I thought it was good when guys are sensitive
>>32016625
I'm not going to see him again so I guess I'll never know
>>32016626
I'm just new to life man>>32016590
Make 4chan frog a robot (autistic)>>32016617
>nice guys
Yes, then too
Alongside bitch ass dicks that acts like women to get what they want
Same coin>>32016616
What's wrong with having a rape kink?>>32016630
>>32016629
She's an attention whore. Yikes!>>32016635
Oh no, how dare they get what they want! Such jerks, OMG!!!>>32016628
nothing wrong I’m just proud to be mexican>>32016620
Are you handsome?>>32016639
It’s about acting like women to get what they want because in reality they’re insecure little bitches that are not respected by anyone
Not because they get what they want>>32016633
So what do you get out of pretending to be a woman on 4chan?>tfw no qt big tiddy latina gf to put babies in
Why even live>>32016645
How does one act like a woman to get what I want? I want to learn that too.>>32016633
Do you understand the concept of context? It's good if a guy cries in a meaningful context, like crying from grief after a loved one passes away, or crying with joy at the birth of a child. It's bad if a guy cries in a meaningless self-imposed context, like saying "I love you" to a girl he barely knows and then being mad at her for not saying it back.>>32016634
like an autistic robot or just make him a robot>>32016646
A thrill>>32016646
I wish I was pretending. I don't like being a stupid person but thats why I'm here.. for advice>>32016649
I refuse to get b8ed anymore>>32016651
Thoughts on? >>32016648 >>32016656
No, but seriously. How do they do it? pls respond>>32016658
Bro she has a boyfriend why do you guys keep flirting with her>>32016663
100% of my partners have had boyfriends or husbands>>32016658
not many because I don’t plan to be impregnated by someone on 4chan>>32016650
He wasn't maaad per say... or at least I don't think he was>>32016641
You make Mexicans look bad. Pinche perra puta>>32016667
idgaf>>32016666
You should start thinking. Always be an optimist, assume the best of people, and give them plenty of chances... until they pull this shit.>>32016667
No offense most mexicans make themselves look bad>>32016671
I think that's what I was trying to be but I didn't realize I should've stopped at that point. Oh well back to being alone>>32016667
Your "country" is a cartel front.>>32016512
>Who wants a bum ass girlfriend though?
Unless you try to live extravagantly, I don't really think it's as much of a problem as you're thinking. I'd frankly rather deal with that than someone who's career obsessed, for what it's worth. I've been a complete trainwreck at points in my life so being between jobs isn't something I'd judge harshly.
Probably depends on the type of guy you like, though.>>32016675
These things happen. Better luck next time.>>32016651
Like an autistic robot>>32016642
Based on what I have been told, yes.>>32016658
>tfw not a latina so no 4chan bf
Foiled yet again>>32016655
You overplayed your hand by being so casual with the whole "crying on the first date because I didn't say I love him back" thing>>32016573
I know but I may falter and there is. chance that I could unblock him. I guess it sounds fucked up but like you said, that could show I could take matters into my own hands too...

I've been trying to relax about it all and have been watching supportive YouTube videos to just understand everything. I really appreciate having 4chan/atoga and an outlet where I can reach out for help.
>>32016592
it's okay, I understand. :)
what did nuclear look like and how is it different to now? i feel like if he secretly wanted me to reach out, is he just trying to make this a game or test me out of his own insecurity? why?

a few anons aid it was a cute/sweet gesture if I did mail him. but I also get it. and yeah, my siblings feel really guilty now and are full of regret. I've taken her passing really well on the outside looks of it. I'm very spiritually inclined and love nature like her, so I see piece of her flowers and fruit tree she planted many years ago when she lived at the old house i'm still at. did yours pass away too? thank you for reaching out about my mom too :')>>32016682
What do you look like>>32016683
All you have to do to get a 4chan bf is not be fat and exchange contact info>>32016678
What kind of guy are you? Wdym by trainwreck?>>32016687
>exchange contact info
So I won't get a 4chan bf anywaySo do women just post on atoga for attention?
>not single, does not relate to single people
>never answers any of the questions
>only likes men that are the opposite of the 4chan demographic
>hates men in general, demoralizes them for trying to better themselves

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