/htgwg/ How to Get Women General #259
>What is /htgwg/?
How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of those even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.
>What is /htgwg/ not?
These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard these days, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for men trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, who have given up, or who insist that there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can fuck off to. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!
>How to ask for advice
Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.
>Resources and Books
Wingman.live: https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach for men trained on /htgwg/-approved material)
"Models": http://library.lol/main/C314BA7C8EC5C9B66174B08F4DC83931
"No More Mr Niceguy": https://libgen.li/edition.php?id=143167290
Dr. NerdLove: https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/ (a bit cringe but decent advice)
Leykis 101: https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (something to listen to)
(new suggestions with working links are welcome)
REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world.
Previous: >>31985413How much do they cost typicallyWhy are you even bothering to find a girlfriend if you're under 6'3? For real, I don't know whether I respect or pity you guys. I mean, maaaaaybe best chance you end up with some BPD whore who's been through every chad and will make your life a living hell.>>32004904
R9k is two doors down buddy>>32004921
The best advice for getting a girlfriend is either to make FU money and hope you can score a gold-digger or 6'3 and above. That's it. Anything else in these lousy threads is cope.I still wonder how women can say they have relationship problems yet can find a man easily. If things don’t work out with a certain guy then a girl will have several other guys waiting in line for her>>32004933
Explain the poor retards who are 5'6 and have GFs then?>>32004904
>Why are you even bothering to find a girlfriend if you're under 6'3?
Love and sex
> For real, I don't know whether I respect or pity you guys.
Neither, it's pretty good.
>maaaaaybe best chance you end up with some BPD whore who's been through every chad and will make your life a living hell.
Aaaahahaha you fucked one of them didn't you, and now you're coping by pretending you aren't alone
Sorry your ex-gf's a whore bro but that's a you problem>>32004936
>I still wonder how women can say they have relationship problems yet can find a man easily.
Those men are shitty and contribute to relationship problems.
Your question is dumb.
>If things don’t work out with a certain guy then a girl will have several other guys waiting in line for her
Bro that sounds like relationship problems
>>32005090
>Explain the poor retards who are 5'6 and have GFs then?
Anon is schizo
He has decided (or, rather, "The demons" have decided on his behalf) that he's gonna be demoralised, bitter, and upset
So he just believes whatever will encourage him to be demoralised, bitter, and upset.
And he (or, rather, "The demons") won't let reality get in the way. Morale cannot legally affect him without his consent, and he does not consent.>>32005090
I don't need to explain shit. There are always anomalies in human behavior. I would also question how happy those men are in those relationships.>>32005108
It is better to face facts and embrace despair than cling to false hope and blind faith.To me its about Christ and accepting pain. The rest will come one day, or never. Blessed be you, frens.>>32005162
>I would also question how happy those men are in those relationships.
Oh yeah, that's actually hard for most people isn't it.>>32005162
Lmao happier than you apparently>>32005168
Based, these threads can have little nuggets of wisdom but yeah. I’m recently sober and took up fitness and getting back in to my faith as a priority and I’ve never felt more clarity. Do I want a partner? Sure, but I’d rather be the best version of myself and knowing I have things to offer instead of falling in to codependency because I want a warm body next to me.>>32005237
Are they? They don't look it or sound it. If a woman is settling for a manlet, then you know that shit doesn't end well.>>32005261
yeah no man under 6'3 has ever married or had kids without getting cheatted on or divorce raped you're right>>32005286
>a lucky few people win the lottery
>this means I too should expect to win the lottery>>32004714
If I'm a manlet, framelet, balding, autistic, genetically socially anxious, socially stunted due to homeschooling and the lack of an actual father figure, still going to uni in his late 20s because of mental issues, and have no friends, should I just give up?>>32005628
Probably. But I don't know what "giving up" even looks like? Sure, you can try to focus on other things, but you'll still be unfulfilled sexually and intimately. I only think it works for dudes who are low-test and autistic.>>32005369
>comparing getting a girlfriend or a wife to winning the fucking lottery
Are you legitimately like 70 IQ or something?>>32005778
>what is an analogy?
Too dumb to think abstractly, anon?
The point is a minority of people get lucky, so you shouldn't base your own expectations on outliers.>>32004714
Tips on getting back out there after an abusive relationship?
Miss her bad right now but that's probably because I'm lonely
"No More Mr Niceguy": https://libgen.li/edition.php?id=14
Dr. NerdLove: https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog
Leykis 101: https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (something to listen to)
(new suggestions with working links are welcome)
REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world.
Previous: >>31985413How much do they cost typicallyWhy are you even bothering to find a girlfriend if you're under 6'3? For real, I don't know whether I respect or pity you guys. I mean, maaaaaybe best chance you end up with some BPD whore who's been through every chad and will make your life a living hell.>>32004904
R9k is two doors down buddy>>32004921
The best advice for getting a girlfriend is either to make FU money and hope you can score a gold-digger or 6'3 and above. That's it. Anything else in these lousy threads is cope.I still wonder how women can say they have relationship problems yet can find a man easily. If things don’t work out with a certain guy then a girl will have several other guys waiting in line for her>>32004933
Explain the poor retards who are 5'6 and have GFs then?>>32004904
>Why are you even bothering to find a girlfriend if you're under 6'3?
Love and sex
> For real, I don't know whether I respect or pity you guys.
Neither, it's pretty good.
>maaaaaybe best chance you end up with some BPD whore who's been through every chad and will make your life a living hell.
Aaaahahaha you fucked one of them didn't you, and now you're coping by pretending you aren't alone
Sorry your ex-gf's a whore bro but that's a you problem>>32004936
>I still wonder how women can say they have relationship problems yet can find a man easily.
Those men are shitty and contribute to relationship problems.
Your question is dumb.
>If things don’t work out with a certain guy then a girl will have several other guys waiting in line for her
Bro that sounds like relationship problems
>>32005090
>Explain the poor retards who are 5'6 and have GFs then?
Anon is schizo
He has decided (or, rather, "The demons" have decided on his behalf) that he's gonna be demoralised, bitter, and upset
So he just believes whatever will encourage him to be demoralised, bitter, and upset.
And he (or, rather, "The demons") won't let reality get in the way. Morale cannot legally affect him without his consent, and he does not consent.>>32005090
I don't need to explain shit. There are always anomalies in human behavior. I would also question how happy those men are in those relationships.>>32005108
It is better to face facts and embrace despair than cling to false hope and blind faith.To me its about Christ and accepting pain. The rest will come one day, or never. Blessed be you, frens.>>32005162
>I would also question how happy those men are in those relationships.
Oh yeah, that's actually hard for most people isn't it.>>32005162
Lmao happier than you apparently>>32005168
Based, these threads can have little nuggets of wisdom but yeah. I’m recently sober and took up fitness and getting back in to my faith as a priority and I’ve never felt more clarity. Do I want a partner? Sure, but I’d rather be the best version of myself and knowing I have things to offer instead of falling in to codependency because I want a warm body next to me.>>32005237
Are they? They don't look it or sound it. If a woman is settling for a manlet, then you know that shit doesn't end well.>>32005261
yeah no man under 6'3 has ever married or had kids without getting cheatted on or divorce raped you're right>>32005286
>a lucky few people win the lottery
>this means I too should expect to win the lottery>>32004714
If I'm a manlet, framelet, balding, autistic, genetically socially anxious, socially stunted due to homeschooling and the lack of an actual father figure, still going to uni in his late 20s because of mental issues, and have no friends, should I just give up?>>32005628
Probably. But I don't know what "giving up" even looks like? Sure, you can try to focus on other things, but you'll still be unfulfilled sexually and intimately. I only think it works for dudes who are low-test and autistic.>>32005369
>comparing getting a girlfriend or a wife to winning the fucking lottery
Are you legitimately like 70 IQ or something?>>32005778
>what is an analogy?
Too dumb to think abstractly, anon?
The point is a minority of people get lucky, so you shouldn't base your own expectations on outliers.>>32004714
Tips on getting back out there after an abusive relationship?
Miss her bad right now but that's probably because I'm lonely
